When it comes to weddings, sometimes, less is more. While the idea of a big, glitzy wedding is a dream for some, it’s a nightmare for others. For some of us, simplicity is bliss, and our dream wedding is one that is intimate and full of personality.
Planning an intimate wedding gives you the chance to focus on what really matters. Also, cutting out the excess means saving a fortune – you won’t be in debt for years to come! So, let’s take a look at six important steps you’ll need to take when planning your intimate wedding.
Keep the guest list short
When it comes to creating your wedding guest list, think quality over quantity. Invite those who matter most. It’s a celebration of your love for your partner and the happiest day of your life – so why would you invite someone who doesn’t really know you? Of course, you might get some push back – particularly if parents are paying and have their own opinions about who should be there. But be honest, explain your reasoning and stand your ground.
Look for alternative wedding venues
From art galleries and museums to botanic gardens and rustic barns, there are many alternative options when it comes to intimate wedding venues. Most cost less than traditional wedding venues, offer outstanding natural beauty and have a certain romantic ambience, perfect for a small, intimate wedding. Don’t write off a family home – there’s something special about getting married in a place that’s sentimental to the couple.
Skip the traditions
Traditional weddings can often be long, drawn-out affairs. One of the benefits of an intimate wedding is that you can dispense of boring formalities and keep things interesting. If certain traditions don’t mean much to you, chances are they won’t mean much to your guests either. So cut out the filler and make sure there’s never a dull moment – the personality of your wedding will shine through.
Treat your guests like royalty
Having a smaller wedding gives you the chance to really put on a show for your guests. Whether it’s hiring special transport to get to the wedding or laying on a divine five-course feast for the wedding dinner, going all out for your select group of loved ones will make for a memorable wedding.
Pay attention to the details
Those who throw big, extravagant weddings tend to overlook the smaller things. They often get too wrapped up in the idea of putting on a big show and tend to forget that detail is key. With an intimate wedding, you have the chance to add depth and character to your big day.
Get imaginative with the design
Having fewer guests means fewer tables and potentially more space. Use it wisely to create an intimate atmosphere, taking lighting into account. When designing your wedding space, think of wedding photos as well. Speak to your wedding photographer about the layout – fewer guests means a better opportunity to capture the closeness of your wedding day.
